Let’s face it – penis size is one of those things we guys think about way more than we admit. Whether it’s locker room comparisons, scrolling through adult content, or just random curiosity… most of us have asked: “Is mine normal?”
So, here’s a guy’s take – mixed with real science, personal experience, and a bit of humour. Because why not?
Let’s Start with the Cold, Hard Facts
(Yes, pun intended.)
According to a large-scale study published in the British Journal of Urology International (BJUI), the average penis size is:
- Flaccid: 3.6 inches (9.16 cm)
- Erect: 5.16 inches (13.12 cm)
(Source: BJUI Study, 2015)
If you’re measuring at home, don’t forget: proper technique matters. Measure along the top, from the pubic bone to the tip – and no cheating with the ruler!
From Personal Experience…
Alright, confession time. I’m smack in the middle of the average. Nothing wild, nothing disappointing. In high school, I used to worry I wasn’t big enough (thanks, internet). But every relationship taught me one thing:
Most women care way more about how you use it than how long it is.
And honestly? Confidence, humour, and being a good partner beat an extra inch every time.
Does Penis Size Really Matter?
It depends who you ask. But here’s what studies suggest:
- A study from King’s College London found that most women preferred a “slightly above average” size – but far more important was emotional connection, foreplay, and communication.
- In a 2023 Healthline survey, 84% of respondents said penis size had little to no effect on their overall sexual satisfaction.
In other words: relax. You’re probably doing just fine.
Common Myths About Penis Size (That Need to Die)
Bigger = Better. Nope. Too big can even be uncomfortable for some partners.
You can tell by shoe size. Scientifically debunked. Sorry, lads.
Size is everything. Let’s not forget hands, mouths, toys, and brains exist.
What Really Matters in the Bedroom
Let’s shift the focus. Great sex is about:
- Knowing what your partner enjoys
- Being attentive
- Trying new things together
- Confidence (not arrogance)
- Communication, before and after
Size is a tiny part of a much bigger picture.
Final Thoughts: You’re Normal. Relax.
If you’re reading this and comparing yourself to charts and diagrams – stop. Penis size is just one part of a person’s sexual identity. And chances are, you fall within the average, like most of us.
So focus on being a good lover, not just a “big” one. Trust me – your partner will notice.
Check out related posts 👉
How to increase penis: 8 penis enlargement methods
Micropenis Love Story: Woman Shares Life, Laughter & Intimacy with Her Man
